we try to explain our unconscious behavior with your conscious mindset that will always lead to cognitive dissonance. Because the personality you create by being around people can be seen much more less than you think. But keeping that ego drains the energy of it and does not fulfill its purpose. It should be just a filter not a personality that gets activated every time someone comes into that room. It just should give the unconscious certain information in order to help the unconscious to interpret and decide for certain behaviors. And the more you use that method the more the mind will realize objective reality and the safety level it is in. The more it is safe the more it is flexible in using the body. The more you can distinguish certain behaviors, how it makes you feel and why you do it you unconsciously get more tools to direct which side, element or cognitive function it needs to use to get a certain outcome. Because the unconscious is not safety related it is interested in development and strengthening its database. And extreme consequences are not part of its concern because of the rarity of possibility that a minority can destroy a whole species. The thing is it is also interesting to prolong the life of an individual to get as much evidence as possible. So it is a delicate dance which needs other elements outside itself. Without guiding the conflict of interest will lead to dissonance and negative consequences. That is why the concept of yin and yang was born. Because it tries to make the mind understand that hierarchy is the cause of all problems and is the perceived wrong interpretation of the mind that hyperfocus leads to set goals. In order to gain that balance knowledge is needed about all aspects of oneself in relation to outside stimuli in order to keep balance. Because balance creates inner peace and happiness because it creates the ultimate effective safety shield which can be created on an individual and collective level. 

Every biological need is connected to the mind and the conscious, who filters out stimuli. A healthy mind scans for outside stimuli in order to make certain decisions. It can open up a certain need that brings you to the next step of development. The problem is the overgeneralization and separation between mind and matter. If you reduce people to only their biological purposes and tell them they have to fulfill that purpose no matter what you bring a whole tribe into danger because in times where human beings were predominantly nomads that would mean death on a big scale because children are a danger increaser. Mother nature regulated child birth and that only the best genes survive. The problem nowadays is that mother nature can not regulate anymore as she used to with outside forces and the power increases so the separation towards her will force her to counteract methods to at least immensely reduce the number of human beings and its perceived power by separation with her. Our mind is the unconscious frequency of mother earth. So if we disrespect her, she will indirectly change our thoughts to her will. This Results in mental health issues and leads to ineffective decision making that in the least destructive makes you stuck individually and in the worst case makes every life around you insufferable. That is why believing in the frequency whatever you call it will let the connection be strong to her and she will lead you to happiness. The problem now is that the different methods displayed now do not produce happiness and the result is doubling down on it, going into the extreme with your already preconceived bias. Having it all does not cut it anymore so hyperfocus is the solution but that is the same way all Generations since baby boomers do without significant success. The solution would be to observe, analyze and come up with new opportunities because the old ones do not work as it seems. Mother nature does not want us to go back to stone age years, our DNA has a certain purpose and in my opinion our free will is based on the goal of mother nature that we found our unique collective way to integrate ourselves in her system. And reducing her system in generalization where clearly she does not work on generalizations but patterns  does not work either as we see. Basically your unhappiness can be counteracted with the opposite or criticizing your perspective. But unhappiness and happiness comes from the soul and fear and relief from the ego. Your goal is to put yourself in different situations where you manifest and strengthen your database of what is what to make more secure decisions. So generalizations counteract this. The mind and matter segregation destroys happiness and the more extreme you favor one over the other the more you create a blackhole that absorbs all humanity until non existing.